This last week I enjoyed watching the National Basketball Association (NBA) finals between the Miami Heat and the Dallas Mavericks. Having lived 25 plus years in Miami, I wanted to cheer for the Heat, but I love to compete against anyone, so I found a friend who loves the Heat and we decided to wager a small supper on the winner of the best of seven series.
As my wife said, “Larry- you don’t really want the Mav’s to win, you just love the thrill of competing.”
You know- she is right. I just love to compete, and sometimes I really don’t care if I win. I just want to compete, and sure it is fun to have my friend pay for supper.
Three weeks ago I was up in Ohio for a nieces wedding. The younger boys were out shooting some baskets in the back yard. I went out and stood around until they finally said- “hey “old man” -do you want to play?” Did I want to play? Like asking a child if he wants candy…
I started playing with all my heart, and there came a point, while I was winning that I just started laughing while I was guarding one of the guys. Laughing really loud because I was having the time of my life once again while competing. Why? Because I know I will never have this moment again. And that causes me to pause right now and ask the question-
Do you enjoy competing? Or has having to win taken the joy out of doing your best? Today I choose to enjoy the competition that business brings, do I want to win- of course, but I want to compete even more.
Oh, and in case you were wondering… yes, this “old man” won at every game of basketball we played that night.
Enjoy life my friends.
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